Is there any surefire way to know he isn’t interested in you anymore? Well, like the old adage says ‘actions speak louder than words’, so we can often draw from his actions or lack of actions what he is really feeling. Here is how to understand the signs that prove he’s not interested anymore. If you’ve noticed 3 or more of these signs in your new or long term relationship , it may be time to evaluate if he’s really the guy for you and face reality.
Here Are Proven Ways To Tell That He’s Not Interested Anymore.
1. He shows no regret:
A person is heartbroken when a relationship ends. If your ex has some other feelings, then he might not be that interested. If he shows no regret or repentance on your failed relationship, then he has simply moved on in life.
A great real life example of this was when my friend Samantha told me about how her boyfriend of 10 years moved out after what she thought was a mutually painful breakup – but was devastated by his lack of hurt or regret over the situation. Samantha said,
He would come over to get his things every few days for a few weeks after our breakup and have a smile on his face and a pep in his step he didn’t have before. It was like he was a teenager on his way to college ready to experience a new fun life. At first I assumed it was an act, but it became apparent that he had been able to effortlessly move on without me. He never asked about how I was handling the break up and shifted into a new life and immediately started dating other women- it was humiliating.
2. He’s Not “Around” You
This is probably the number one tell-tale sign that lets you know if a guy is into you or not. If he’s not into you, then he’ll surely not be “around” you. Even though when a guy is attracted to a woman, he’ll act in many different ways (he might tease her, he might ignore her, he might be annoying), but at the end of the day, he’s always “around” her when he’s doing this. If a guy is into you, he’ll find reasons to be close to you. You’ll notice him popping up in your vicinity. This is something that you probably didn’t notice initially, but once you realize it, you’ll start to see it all the time, especially when he stops.
3. He’s become lazy and no longer tries
He doesn’t try to impress you anymore. He lets everything hang out in the open, and perhaps even more aggressively than normal. It seems more and more like your less special and he sees you like any other random person.
4. He Has No Problem Telling You About The Girls He Likes
Yet another clear-cut sign that he’s not interested. Make sure you don’t confuse this with the occasional story about some girl — all guys do that from time to time, and it really isn’t a big deal. However, if you talk to a guy and he’s having no trouble telling you about all the girls he likes, the girls he’ll sleep with and any other fantasies of this nature, on a regular basis, you can take that as a clear sign that he’s not that into you. If he was, he wouldn’t be telling you about all these other ladies.
5. Stops showing public displays of affection
When he kisses you or holds your hand in public, he’s telling the world that you’re together—which he won’t want to do if he’s anticipates being single soon. Whether he’d act on it or not, he’s subconsciously demonstrating to any potential future interests in the area that you two are on shaky ground. But even worst he wont want to be seen with you to give others a reminder that you are still together.
6. He’s Not Interested In Talking To You
It can’t get any more straightforward than this. If he doesn’t have an interest in you, he won’t have an interest in talking to you. The key here is to not automatically assume that he’s not interested in talking to you because he’s afraid of making the first move, or takes a long time to reply to your texts. A lot of guys have all sorts of weird texting habits, but the general, not-interested-in-talking-to-you issue should be apparent over the long run. You need to see if he actually has ample opportunities to text you or talk to you, and then based on those, decide whether or not he chooses to take those opportunities or simply ignores them.
7. He doesn’t use the pronoun “we” or use it in the future tense.
If he talks about a great new restaurant he discovered, but doesn’t add, “We should go there sometime”—and maybe he just says “I go there a lot”—then he’s not interested in sharing things with you. Plus: “Guys who are into girls want to explore with them—not sit on the couch on every date,” says Mike.
8. Looks Right Past You:
When your relationship was new, your guy would not mind staring in your eyes for hours. If he no longer makes eye contact with you and gazes through you, these are just enough signs he is not interested in you anymore.
So if any of these warning signs relate to you then it’s time to admit that there is a real problem and deal with it. Your best bet is to confront your guy respectfully but directly and see if he will admit to anything. Sometimes a guy will save you the time and own up to his feelings about his lack of interest in the future of your relationship. You will never know for sure if you don’t ask. Yes it will hurt like hell, but you will know the truth and in the end you will be grateful for it.
If a direct honest explanation is not possible then follow your instincts- and if you think something is wrong, it’s most likely wrong. Your friends are great people, and they are usually the first to notice the signs and would want to tell you. Go ahead and ask your friends about the signs they are seeing. You are always welcome to reach out to me and my psychic love reading services if you want to get definitive answers from an empathic reader.